Thursday, February 19, 2009

The Givens Girls Get-Together

Double Cousins: Carolyn, Annette (my aunt), Lois, and Carmen (my mom).

Once upon a time there were these two brothers, Harold and Art Givens, who fell in love with sisters, Teresa and Alda Pongratz. They married their sweethearts and each had a family. Their families farmed together, played together, cared for each other, went to church together, worked together, and went to school together. My mom is the youngest daughter of Harold and Teresa. I've always loved her stories about growing up on the farm and the special connection that she had to her cousins. It was amazing to me that this group of cousins shared the same aunts and uncles and the same grandparents on both sides of their family. Growing up in a small farmining community in Nebraska, these four girls were referred to as "The Givens Girls". My mom thought it'd be fun to have them all out to Tucson this winter for a "Givens Girls Reunion". They did so earlier this month for a whole week. There are quite a few "Givens Boys" too, but this was a time for just the girls. I called my mom and asked if Meagan and I could jump in on the fun for a day of their time together. Meagan and I had such a great time jumping in with the Givens Girls. We looked at old photographs, listened to their stories, laughed, and caught up on their families with a warm and sunny Tucson as a lovely backdrop. It was such a wonderful little get-away for Meagan and me. While not full blooded "Givens Girls" like these four, being with them made me grateful that Meagan and I have some of this rich "Givens Girl" blood coursing through our own veins.

3 comments:

Salty Incisor said...

how fun. Glad you got to go. Right now is the perfect time to go to Tucson and enjoy blooming cactus, right?
and I seriously would love to go, but vacations are never a priority unless someone dies then we bite the bullet. Only happened once! Remember? Anyway I miss you and wish I could rush to Az cuz I love Roadtrips but there are things like school andthere are people here framing my basement etc..
Toodles.
P.S. I realized I think I forgot to send you a new years card, cuz your card wasn't in the same pile when I addressed them. Did you get one if not do you want one? Is it too late?

Angie said...

Tash-It was great to be back in Tucson...a little piece of heaven. I hope we can see each other without waiting for someone to die. I'd love a New Year's card...I love holiday cards any time of year! Angie

tracy said...

Those Givens Girls have some infectious laughs! Wish I could have been there, too.